The Road We Choose

When the opposite applies to this,
You may flip the meaning to get the gist,
Although opposites are perfect pairs,
You can travel up or down the stairs,
Arriving at another destination,
The road we choose with hesitation,
A way for understanding & compassion,
More than words, when put into action,
I’ll let go of the defined meaning,
The definition will very soon be leaving,
To realize the basic essence of life,
An anniversary of a husband & wife,
Union of opposites may be balanced,
I just wonder if there is a chance.